Husbandry
Poems
19 April 2024
Territory Rights — Worldwide including Canada, Singapore and Malaysia, but excluding the British Commonwealth.
Description
“By turns tender, heartbroken, enraptured, delighted, angry, melancholy—all the turns of human family life.”—Jesse Nathan, McSweeney’s
An intimate, moving volume of poems on the anxieties and love of single fatherhood and domestic life.
Guided by acclaimed poet Matthew Dickman’s signature “clarity and ability to engage” (David Kirby, New York Times), Husbandry is a love song from a father to his children. Written after a separation and during overwhelming single-fatherhood in the early days of COVID-19 lockdowns, Husbandry refuses romantic notions of parenting and embraces all its mess, anguish, humor, fear, boredom, and warmth.
Dickman composes these poems entirely in vivid couplets that animate the various domestic pairs of broken-up parents, two sons, love and grief. He explores the terrain of his children’s dreams and nightmares, the almost primal fears that spill into his own, and the residual impacts of his parents’ failures. Threading his anxieties with bright moments of beauty and gratitude, the volume delights in seeing the world through the clear eyes of childhood and finds meaning in the domestic work—repetitive, exhausting, and sublime—of sustaining three lives.
With tender, aching precision, Husbandry reveals the poet’s hunger to be a husband without ever being one, and his search for a father that ends with becoming one himself.
Reviews
"[Matthew] Dickman delivers us into the squelching heartlift and heartbreak of parenthood." — Nina MacLaughlin, Boston Globe
"The greater than human world and the mundanely human are bound up in this book. Accomplices in horror and happiness. Dickman relays a dailiness examined so closely it often alters into something almost strange, like that bizarre moment you attend to the steps of an oft-repeated action and note, with anatomical, perhaps even scatological, precision, how wild and wonderful it is to be alive." — Camille T. Dungy, Orion
"The poems in [Husbandry] portray parenting in a beautiful and heartbreaking light, eschewing traditional tropes to celebrate child-rearing and homemaking." — Alta Journal
"[Dickman’s poems] assemble a haunting diorama of specific, heart-piercing references, like a long equation he's trying to solve." — Suzette Smith, Portland Mercury
"Husbandry’s image-world has recalled for me what language really is and does in the deepest epochs of living. It is rare to encounter a genuine poetics of separation and single-parenthood, still rarer one which consecrates the drudgery and the glittering revelations of nurture from a position of candid interiority. Everyone is equal in this book, with the innocent justice life offers at the outset." — Rachel Cusk, author of Second Place
"In a clear, spare voice, Husbandry contemplates the joys and struggles of domestic life, detailing many luminous moments of fatherhood." — Marilyn Chin, author of Sage
"Joseph relegated to holy backdrop. Vader’s chilling confession to a wounded Luke. Fathers undervalued, hastily drawn, overly romanticized, dismissed, dramatized, overlooked. Fathers called upon to be substitute everythings, then commanded to be less than shadows. Matthew Dickman’s signature lyricism electrifies this new fractured phase of his life story, as a suddenly solo father who witnesses the visceral but tender unreeling of family, who must daily redefine his root as both father and son, and whose utterly stubborn love for his children reveals the chaotic, ungolden work of parenthood." — Patricia Smith, author of Incendiary Art
"Matthew Dickman’s tenderly forensic, accomplished, and confronting book moves through bitterness to the domestic realities of the work of responsibility and love for our children. In the anxiety of being, nightmares have to be negotiated, and the role we play in showing a way through has to be scrutinized as we go. It’s not easy, it never was, for any of us. And that’s the gift of this book—though so specific, so personal, it can be for any of us." — John Kinsella, author of Insomnia
"Husbandry—one of the most moving books of poems I have read—is told almost in a whisper that now and then breaks into a cry. Tough, plain, gorgeous, brave, innocent, full of dailiness, love, and heartbreak, these poems exist in that mysterious crossover place between the inner life and the lives of others." — Sarah Arvio, author of Cry Back My Sea
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